Grindr has voiced its support for a Republican-sponsored bill, the App Store Accountability Act, which would compel Apple and Google to check users’ ages at the storefront level and require parental consent before minors can download or make in-app payments. The maneuver positions one of the largest LGBTQ dating apps in the world as a tech industry lobbying force at the center of tumultuous debate over online safety and who should police it, privacy, parental rights, and freedom of expression — and who should be responsible for policing age checks across the internet.
What the App Store Accountability Act Actually Does
The App Store Accountability Act would move age gating from apps to app stores. Instead of thousands of developers building their own verification flows, the stores could tell apps a yes/no age signal after verifying an “age category” with personal information. For users under 18, the bill would require parental consent ahead of any download or in-app purchase.
- What the App Store Accountability Act Actually Does
- Why Grindr Says Centralized Screening Is Safer
- Privacy and Free Speech Pressures From Centralized Age Checks
- A Patchwork Abroad and a Uniformity Push
- The Obscenity Debate Looms Over Age Verification Rules
- What Happens Next for the App Store Accountability Act

This is in addition to the decades-old Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act — which centers on kids under 13. By applying to all minors, it aims to rein in teen access and spending across the mobile ecosystem — an area where some existing tools are popular but not universal, such as Apple’s Family Sharing and Google Play parental controls.
Why Grindr Says Centralized Screening Is Safer
In a company blog post, Grindr’s head of global government affairs wrote that a central, secure check at the app-store level could be safer and even more consistent than requiring users to upload sensitive documents to countless apps themselves. The company says a top-down approach is more in line with the way most parents want the system to operate, pointing to internal polling that it says shows that close to 90% favor one-and-done age verification.
Grindr would like to be considered one of those defenders, pointing to its own protections — age gates, device-level bans, human moderation, AI-driven detection, and collaboration with child safety groups — as proof that platforms can keep minors off adult services. A trusted age signal from the app stores would, the company argues, strengthen those defenses while eliminating how much personal data each app must gather.
Privacy and Free Speech Pressures From Centralized Age Checks
Digital rights groups say that centralized verification can result in honeypots of identity data. The Electronic Frontier Foundation and the A.C.L.U. have warned that demanding IDs or Social Security numbers for everyday app downloads threatens to strip users of anonymity, stifle speech, and exclude those without typical documentation.
Real-world examples underscore the stakes. Several platforms reported traffic shifts and user confusion as Louisianians were required to submit government IDs or facial scans to continue accessing adult website content. In Utah, a leading adult site even decided to block access altogether rather than introducing its own checks, citing privacy concerns. Researchers and advocates say that false positives and discrepancies in documentation could disproportionately impact vulnerable people, like LGBTQ youth who might be using the tool to find support resources; trans users whose government IDs potentially do not match their gender identity; and undocumented individuals.
The larger legislative landscape is equally volatile. Politicians scrambled several online safety bills together, including the Kids Online Safety Act, which critics warn will result in platforms downranking or banning LGBTQ content to reduce perceived “harm.” Free speech advocates, on the other hand, argue that definitions and enforcement mechanisms matter at least as much as where age verification happens.
A Patchwork Abroad and a Uniformity Push
Grindr compares the U.S. plan to developing policies in the UK and EU.

The UK’s Online Safety Act mandates that services hosting adult content use “age assurance,” which can range from ID checks or biometric scans and is often done by users submitting data directly to the individual sites. Privacy advocates in the UK and Europe have urged policymakers to adopt privacy-preserving technologies, but adoption has been spotty and patchy.
Supporters of the app-store model say a sole gatekeeper could limit the number of entities that potentially process sensitive information. Skeptics argue that the reliance on two companies — Apple and Google — for so much power raises questions about competition and accountability, and that a single database could simply become a juicy target for hacks.
The Obscenity Debate Looms Over Age Verification Rules
Further complicating the politics, at least one sponsor of the age-verification bill has also supported efforts to rewrite federal obscenity standards in a totally different piece of legislation. Civil liberties groups are cautioning that any broad definition of what is considered “obscene” could serve to capture sexual health information, LGBTQ education, and art — increasing the free speech risks of age-gating regimes that rely on content labeling.
Those concerns are not hypothetical. There were more than 32 million reports to the CyberTipline in 2022, showing the scope of abuse online. But experts warn that blunt measures can drive vulnerable communities offline without tangibly improving child safety, unless they are implemented alongside targeted, evidence-based interventions.
What Happens Next for the App Store Accountability Act
The App Store Accountability Act still has to run the usual gauntlet — committee consideration, floor votes, and reconciliation with any Senate version. Neither Apple nor Google has publicly thrown its support behind a particular federal age-verification framework, but both host family controls, content ratings, and app review processes that might serve as scaffolding for compliance.
It will depend on the technical details of which data get gathered. Industry and standards bodies are investigating privacy-preserving age tokens (‘greecons’) that can prove ‘at least 16’ or ‘at least 18’ without disclosing positive identity, yet adoption remains in its infancy. The cost on developers and the threat of unintentional lockouts are also going to be key flash points.
The endorsement of Grindr for the time being indicates a new alignment: some platforms long criticized in safety debates are supporting an app-store-wide solution rather than fragmented, per-app requirements. Whether Congress can turn that consensus into a framework for protecting kids while also preserving privacy and the right to free speech is the litmus test ahead.
